Tuesday, January 29, 2013

事.情

  

      我的感情,一路走来,说好不好,说坏不坏。只知道曾经最好的,已变成过去。而在放手的那一刻,我仍然相信着。
      一直以来,我没向任何人交代我的感情事,就算外界的流言蜚语已铺满天。因为别人要怎么扭转是非,你也无法阻止,你的解释只会让你更讨厌,所以,算了吧。
      当然,我不是圣人,我也不是什么好人,因为我曾经不忠,虽然这个世界,这种事情已没什么大不了,到最后可不可恨,只是看当时的人要怎么想。
     话说在前头,不忠的人绝对是不对的那个,可是我总是觉得感情会出问题,不是一方面的问题,除非对方绝对众所皆知的好人。所以我真的很想问,一段感情,到底是想争取为感情付出的错,还是对感情没付出什么的人有错呢?
      每个人都对爱情抱着不同的想法,而对我来说,感觉上爱情是出了亲情以外最重要的,因为对一个女人来说,离开了娘家,就是另一个家的开始。很久以前,我想要爱一个人,可以到永远,可是原来在我18岁的时候,这个社会已不是这么走的了,更别说是现在。虽然我还一直相信着,因为我父母和我姐和姐夫,是有这个童话的。所以我也一直都在寻找那个可以和我走这一世的人。
      感情,不是以自己的角度对另一半好就是付出,而是了解另一半要的是什么,或迁就对方和自己的不同一起生活,才算是付出。付出不是给的物质越好,付出就越多。
      说了那么多,我也已经不知道自己在说什么了。我只能说,该还的,我已经还完了,甚至于还要靠自己对之前所受到的言语暴力疗自己的伤。所以,请不要再因为一方面的故事而去厌恶另一个人,因为你永远不会知道,真正的故事是怎么回事,你也不会知道,他们经过的,是什么事情。

Friday, January 11, 2013

Vintage 2013


It's been awhile I didnt share my mixie matchy style! and I miss it so much~~

This is the first post for the year of 2013, I'm still the old me but with new resolution, which is be a more happy gal instead of emo gal : D  ok, I think I'm slightly out of the topic...

So yea, its a new year but there's still some things I still remain the same, like vintage style its still my favorite!

so I decided to slightly dressed up to work~


Laced top - botique in plaza damas (they have a stall in curve too) - RM69.90
mustard skirt - one hidden shop in times square at the same floor with the cinema - RM 39.90























I think this shoes matched perfectly with the outfit, and the socks too! but nope I didnt wear this too work, abit too kua jiong la..I am a low profile person...hehehe XD





















Believe your eyes, the skirt is really very small..I think its 23inch ba!! but they said its free size -.- its good in a way...its so tight which make you dont feel like eating at all









































I would say its a perfect style for dating! but work...hmm...is it abit overdressed (in media industry), I'm a low profile person u know~ LOL...too bad la...no date for the day...just wear this to work and back home..
What do you think? abit overdressed for work? is it ok to dress like this for dating?? *lots of questions in mind*