Tuesday, January 29, 2013

事.情

  

      我的感情,一路走来,说好不好,说坏不坏。只知道曾经最好的,已变成过去。而在放手的那一刻,我仍然相信着。
      一直以来,我没向任何人交代我的感情事,就算外界的流言蜚语已铺满天。因为别人要怎么扭转是非,你也无法阻止,你的解释只会让你更讨厌,所以,算了吧。
      当然,我不是圣人,我也不是什么好人,因为我曾经不忠,虽然这个世界,这种事情已没什么大不了,到最后可不可恨,只是看当时的人要怎么想。
     话说在前头,不忠的人绝对是不对的那个,可是我总是觉得感情会出问题,不是一方面的问题,除非对方绝对众所皆知的好人。所以我真的很想问,一段感情,到底是想争取为感情付出的错,还是对感情没付出什么的人有错呢?
      每个人都对爱情抱着不同的想法,而对我来说,感觉上爱情是出了亲情以外最重要的,因为对一个女人来说,离开了娘家,就是另一个家的开始。很久以前,我想要爱一个人,可以到永远,可是原来在我18岁的时候,这个社会已不是这么走的了,更别说是现在。虽然我还一直相信着,因为我父母和我姐和姐夫,是有这个童话的。所以我也一直都在寻找那个可以和我走这一世的人。
      感情,不是以自己的角度对另一半好就是付出,而是了解另一半要的是什么,或迁就对方和自己的不同一起生活,才算是付出。付出不是给的物质越好,付出就越多。
      说了那么多,我也已经不知道自己在说什么了。我只能说,该还的,我已经还完了,甚至于还要靠自己对之前所受到的言语暴力疗自己的伤。所以,请不要再因为一方面的故事而去厌恶另一个人,因为你永远不会知道,真正的故事是怎么回事,你也不会知道,他们经过的,是什么事情。

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